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I told my former wife, "Here is the beautiful goddess." She said,
"Being a person is fine."
I do not see why there would be a contradiction between the two.
You can be both a person and a goddess.
I have heard it said that women don`t want to be put on a
pedestal. Their main reason for that is that they don`t want to be subject
to unfair expectations. Certainly, if you put your woman on a pedestal
and then start mistreating her should she fall off the pedestal, you
are a jerk. However what I`ve found is that good women expect a lot
of themselves; and a man who expects a lot of them as well is not
doing any violence to the woman`s character or propensities.
Is it wrong to put a woman up on a pedestal? That depends on
what you choose to do should she fall off the pedestal. I remained
loving to my former wife even when she did not do everything right. I
kept loving her, whether or not she remained perfect.
If a man is putting a woman up on a pedestal, that should be
seen as an opportunity. Here is someone who values you and respects you.
More women should honor such things and make a good use for them. You
are being valued and cherished. And that leads to far better directions
than being with someone who doesn`t value you.
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